Today i was woken up by this question ‘who are the invisible men in our lives?’ This issue is not about humilating others or ignoring them. U have already known that my restless mind behaves in an independent way and i am accustomed to those interesting questions that come to my mind suddenly….
Maybe u will disagree with my idea about the invisible men in our lives but i wanna tell about them as far as i can:
They were the parts of our lives at one time maybe the worthy ones or we thought as if they were…but how did they become invisible??? Our hearts chose that way in order not to bear any revenge failing that she would be the victim of the wicked mind. She chose to pretend as if she forgot instead of losing her innocence, patience.
Actuallly, the invisible men who accidently or intentionally cause us to struggle with deep pains, disappointments, to change our attitudes and roadmaps towards the life.
U divide ur life into the two parts before u know them and after this and u begin to behave towards those people as u can look but cannot see, u can hear but cannot listen, u can make interior monologues instead of dialogues...
Now they are the missing parts of ur life.U buried all memories about them coz u had to...ur heart made them invisible...
(i was too indecisive to publish this post coz i couldn't write what i tried for:(
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It's nearing my bedtime so such a deep topic is a little difficult for me to grasp. But I'm actually thinking I know who you mean. The old beaue who broke your heart, the father figure who disappointed you all those years ago... The guy who ignored you, or worse, said nasty things to you.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I've got some invisible men, who lose their invisibleness every now and then to come back and haunt me. I think we all do.
Sometimes I think "invisible" would be an improvement over the lasting impressions they have left, the heartbreak, disregard, neglect...
ReplyDeleteThis is a topic I usually steer clear of because of the profound pain inflicted over the years and not just personally, but also upon those I love the most. But then men are just that and only that, they are not angels, nor are we. They are luxuries, not necessities.
Hi Tugce! I wanted to thank you for visiting me and for your nice compliment:) I agree..."luxuries, not necessities."
ReplyDeleteElieen, thanks for ur visit and actually what i try to write is not only about males but also about all people yeaah the invisible men are those who made us disappointed, broke our trusts but this issue is not only about my experiences also about my friends' experiences
ReplyDeleteJudy, thanks a lot i loved this sentences a lot 'They are luxuries, not necessities'((:
Sarah, thanks a lot for visit and for ur comment
i clearly understand your point. maybe becoz i fell the same...
ReplyDeleteYağmur this topic is general so i am sure that everbody has had invisible people in their lives
ReplyDeleteSometimes people inflict pain our way, then we heal. Then we relax but then they come back.
ReplyDeleteLike everyone else I have experience betrayal and hurt from someone very close to me. Then I think they are gone, that I am free. Guess what...probably never be free.
we pretend as if we are free.....
ReplyDeleteHow true, Tugce, "we pretend as if we are free". How many times do we this in life?
ReplyDeleteYour pst ws so thought-provoking!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for passing by my blog.
Please come back soon!!!
You got a new follower:)
Hope you're having a great time!
nice topic Tugce . as always.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed it n its comments.
clearly am out of the subject :)
how are the invisible ppl in my life. happily no one yet. I managed my feelings. I had to. I mean beside love n breaking hearts n those stuff. sometimes someone breaks your heart not coz you're in a relationship with her/-him in this case-. sometimes you left broken coz of a friend who has to leave. for a work or a family etc.
so yeah I've missed many ppl. they just left or I did. yes I felt pain, yes I dropped some tears. but then I got over it. this is how life rules. someday you have to leave your loved ones. even the closest ones.
so just carry on girl. we all had some similar experiences n I can tell that we all still alive :).
the best to the best
your strange brother..
Teresa,i think we cannot count those
ReplyDeleteBetty, thanks a lot for stopping by and very glad that i have a new follower happy weekends((:
brother it is nice to see ur comment again u are right take care of urself
and happy halloween to u all((:
Reports of a couple, rather sentimental touches are important and have patience in finding the right one, the invisible man materialize when you least expect it, hello darling,
ReplyDeleteGood festive and happy halloween,Tugce
Marlow
Marlow,happy halloween and good weekends
ReplyDeleteI had one invisible men, but not in the physical sense, he's still around not by my choice, but circumstance and obligation, a reminder of a painful years passed..
ReplyDeleteIcy thank u for sharing this...
ReplyDeleteThank you for leaving a comment on my site. The song refers to my husband that I lost in a car accident four years ago. Also, It will be Christmas last year that I lost my parents, my sister and brother. These are the invisible people in my life, but somehow they are still there. This is such a sad period in my life.
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i am so sorry:( but glad that u visited my blog and began to follow my blog take care of urself and i hope life will enable u to experience happy stories
ReplyDeleteVery interesting way to view the hurts from the past. I find, that in order to no longer feel the pain, to no longer be defined by the pain, I have to let go.
ReplyDeletethanks yeahhh we should let them gooooo and disappear
ReplyDeleteit seems that i ma like this sometimes...very nice and inspiring thoughts my friends...nice meeting a blogger from turkey, one of the places i wish to visit in the future.
ReplyDeletethanks a lot for ur comment visit anytime u want take careee((:
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